The more authentic, honest and direct you appear, the easier it is to find the right man. What is really important is what they have in common. Partnerships cannot be based solely on external appearances.
Many women hold back online too, waiting to be approached by men. This is convenient and not a problem in itself due to the high surplus of men. Women’s mailboxes are usually bursting at the seams after just a few hours. Answering all contact inquiries could easily fill an entire working day. But it’s about filtering out the right man. If someone looks sympathetic, something special catches the eye in profile, women should take the plunge and approach the man on their own. Men are happy to be approached and usually answer back. Take courage! Unlike women, there is often a yawning emptiness in their mailboxes.
Women would like to communicate and would like to present their entire biography and development in great detail. However, this should be done in a dosed manner. Otherwise you will unintentionally chase the men away. Nobody wants to be confronted with the life story of a stranger on an epic scale at the first online encounter. The following applies: arouse interest, write personally and vividly, but don’t overdo it with length. Profile text and messages should neither be too short nor too long. After all, it’s about an exchange. Anyone who anticipates everything prevents the interlocutor from showing interest and asking questions. Instead, it is better to ask the man a few questions yourself and respond to the answers!
Hardly any woman wants a partner who is all about sex. Some women therefore tend to provide clarity in the free text of their dating profile with clear announcements. “If you want sex, you can buy a rubber doll!” And “Are you looking for a one-night stand? Then keep looking! ”Are popular examples. What these women are not aware of: Such uneventful sayings also have an unattractive and repulsive effect on men who not only have “the one thing” in mind. Who would like to have a bitch as a partner?
Even if almost all mothers stand by their children, it is not uncommon in online dating that the offspring is deliberately kept secret. Younger women in particular tend to do this. All reputable dating sites and dating agencies offer the opportunity to provide information about marital status and children in your own profile. It may well be that a childless woman looks more attractive to most men and that it also leads to more messages and online contacts, but the joy will always be short-lived. As soon as contact is shifted to real life, the children can no longer be hidden.