Still, the first impression counts, just like in real life. Therefore choose a salutation that is as unusual as possible. “Hello stranger” sounds rather boring. More personal and therefore better: “Good evening to Berlin”.
A contact is charming if you respond to the other person’s profile. Ask lots of questions and point out similarities. It’s a good way to feel yourself. People also like to be approached about themselves. Use more ‘you’ words than ‘I’ words.
Don’t put too much pressure on yourself either, it’s not worth it. The content of your email does not have to be incredibly original, women in particular can sit back and relax: In 99 percent of cases, men feel so flattered when a woman is interested in them, the elite partner expert knows.
So be curious, friendly and respectful. Just as one would wish the other way around, then not much can go wrong.
And: respond to the self-description of the other, ask questions to make it easier to answer. Invite the other to visit your profile – maybe the first step to a whole new life.
Apart from cheekbones or large noses, which cannot (or only with difficulty!) Be changed, the following applies: In a photo for online profile pages, it is best to laugh, also to present yourself in action (for things that you enjoy doing), sideways Photographed images often appear more dynamic and flattering. “But it is better not to take too many photos, about three are ideal, too much quickly has a self-portrayal”, says Wiebke Neberich.
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